The Reason Why

I want to be able to spread the word on how to enter the Furry Fandom to be a furry or fan. To be a furry, you just need to say that you are one. The art in lifestyle of being a furry allows a person to call themselves anything. (While not copying off of someone else's fursona.)

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I struggle with depression on what to do when someone is manipulating me in the fandom. All I could do is survive and hope I never see their (manipulators') faces again. Then I see them with close friends I had. Even after close friends made life feel so much more calm. Cutting ties from who had my heart in the fandom is hard to do when it can possibly happen numbers of times. Yet, the fandom says we shall forgive one another and be nice/kind to one another. 

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Sometimes it doesn't matter what level of heart healing you get from someone, they could possibly be someone who likes the person who hates you more than liking you all together. 

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I struggle with the idea of the Furry Fandom having equality for all when dealing with this.

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This is my plea for Furries to be respectful, kind, and nice to one another. Not every furry would be mean, hateful, or careless. However when the brightest star in the fandom goes out, life feels darker and duller when at times it feels like being surrounded by many people who could possibly be reliable or not. 

Some people are reliable in the fandom and some people are not.